Never Say Never

I have always heard "never say never" and have

always tried to not say "I will never............." about my kids.

But just like anyone there are things I hope to do

 or hope not to do. I will still not say that I will never, but that I hope I won't.

I hope..................

to breast feed. But I am not going to say that

I definitely am because I know it will bite

 me in the butt. I have heard both women who loved

it and women who hated it. I am going to try. I

hope it goes well, but we will just have to wait and see.

we don't let the baby sleep with us. Mainly when

it's an infant. I don't care if they come and jump

in the bed with us because they are scared, or

as treat every once in a while. But I really hope

we don't let them sleep with us all the time.

we don't let the baby suck it's thumb. I sucked

my thumb and did until I was about five years

old. I don't mind a pacifier because it can

be taken away. A thumb can not.

we don't let our child throw a fit and then

give in. This is more me then Cory.
Dealing with my nephew Kobi a couple

of times, I wanted to cry and just give in.

I make one meal and that's it. I was

always raised you eat what is fixed,

if not you can go wo it. Sounds harsh,

but I understand why she did it.

I make my own baby food. This sounds

good in theory but not sure it will happen.

we go see our families often. Both sides.

I want our babies to know our families

like we know them. I want them to be

close to their grandmas like we are.

we save up for their college. At least

help as much as we can. Neither one of

our parents were able to help us and it has

not been fun.